Joint parenting is better for kids and adults after a divorce
The negative impact of having the family split up can affect a child for many years, but there are ways to help them cope and flourish.
January 10, 2014 /24-7PressRelease/ -- Joint parenting is better for kids and adults after a divorce
Article provided by Vickie Lynn Cochran, Attorney at Law
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Divorce isn't easy for anyone. Anyone facing a divorce can attest that the painful emotions and struggle for finances and splitting the assets can be one of the worst trials of their life. If divorce is so difficult for adults to go through, imagine how hard it can be for children, who often don't understand what's happening to their family, and what their roles should be when Mom and Dad are separating. Sadly, once the final papers are signed, the stress of divorce doesn't magically go away for kids. The negative impact of having the family split up can affect a child for many years - even carrying over into his or her adult life.
Naturally, caring parents will want to help their children adjust to their divorce and to come out as emotionally and physically healthy as possible. By participating in a respectful joint parenting plan, it is possible to raise a child in a loving and happy environment.
Joint parenting can be challenging, but is worth it
NBC News says that about half of all marriages end in divorce - which affects a lot of kids. When parents get divorced in Arkansas, they face many issues, including child support, visitation and creating a parenting plan that's beneficial for the kids. It's natural for newly separated parents to have tension in their interactions while dealing with the kids' needs. However, parents must try extra hard not to put their kids in the middle or to vent their frustrations with each other in a way that negatively impacts a child.
If parents are able to set aside their hurt feelings and anger, and to cooperate with each other in a careful and mutually respectful parenting plan, their children will stand a much better chance of adjusting well to a life without both parents living together, says HelpGuide. Rather than complaining to the kids about their negative feelings, parents should confide in a close friend or adult family member. A neutral third party is a better way to relay information than using kids as go-betweens.
Parents benefit as well as children from good joint parenting plans, which include:
-Giving the kids a feeling of stability, security and consistency.
-Teaching kids to work out their disagreements, rather than fighting.
-Allowing both parents to have a close relationship to the child.
-Two loving, caring parents providing a good example.
-Letting both parents have a chance to raise the children and be active in decisions.
The best way possible to help children heal from their parents' divorce is to set aside differences and disagreements where the kids are concerned.
Contacting an attorney
An experience family law attorney can help parents navigate the difficult road of divorce, which includes coming up with a parenting plan that both parents can be happy with, and that benefits the children in the best way possible.
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